Ever had the problem of running out of songs to have sex to? You’re slowly getting bored of that same recycled playlist but you can’t seem to find other options either. Looks like it’s time to spice it up. 

If you don’t have a sex playlist, it is perhaps time to consider one. Never underestimate the ability of a good song to get you in the mood, even more so when the rhythm times with something else that could be going on in the bedroom. If you’re curious to know where to start, look no further.

Consider your horny prayers answered; we’re back and this time, we bring you the top 20 best sex songs in 2021. 

1) “Daddy Issues” – The Neighbourhood

Probably even The Neighbourhood had no idea of the impact this song would have in the bedroom when they released it in 2013. From its soft mumbles to the slow guitar (and let’s not forget the seductive purring of, “I know you’ve got daddy issues”), this is song that is a must have on any sex playlist. 

 

2) “Cola” – Lana Del Rey

The poster girl for daddy issues and flower crowns, Lana Del Rey has crafted a discography that was made for one purpose and one purpose only. 

With Lana, (whose name backwards suggests something you’d want to include in your special night) almost every track is a potential bedroom song. We’d suggest its best when you lay it on thick with an in-you-face (literally) song like “Cola”. 

 

3) “Often” – The Weeknd 

Ah, what’s a sex playlist without the god of sweet nothings himself? 

A voice of an angel whispering things that you’d get sent to hell for, The Weeknd is not shy when it comes to explaining what he does best in the bedroom. Yet another artist with plentiful choices for your sex playlist, we’d suggest going with his top song. 

 

4) “Break Up With Your Girlfriend, I’m Bored” by Ariana Grande 

Ariana Grande is a must have on any sex playlist— period. With a voice from the heavens above, it’s perfect for when you are in a heightened state of euphoria. 

Out of all of her famous hits, “Break Up With Your Girlfriend, I’m Bored” is an especially seductive track due to its surprisingly naughty hip hop nature, a surprise from our pop princess. 

It’s time to channel your bratty side, people. Maybe if you’re lucky, you’ll get a spanking.

 

5) “Do I Wanna Know?” – Arctic Monkeys

Nothing sexier than some good ol’ indie rock! Arctic Monkeys struck gold with this track, especially with a dirty bass line that will get anyone in the mood. 

It may be 2021 but “Do I Wanna Know?” still reigns superior in any sex playlist. Get your leather jacket and pants on (or in this case, off) as it’s time for some bad boy roleplay. 

 

6) “Kiss Me More” – Doja Cat ft. SZA

Who says sex songs can’t be cute? The playful and light nature of this song makes for the best kind of sweet, cuddly sex that you could be craving when missing your boo. 

This top song is a must add to your playlist if you’re looking to change up the mood in the bedroom every now and then.

 

7) “Versace On The Floor” – Bruno Mars

Pretty sure it’s impossible to have a sex playlist without this one. Bruno Mars is a man that knows exactly what to do in bed, and we believe him! 

Time to get decked in your best and slowly leave a trail of expensive breadcrumbs for your partner to follow: there’s something more exciting than gold waiting at the end of this rainbow. 

 

8) “Slow Dancing In The Dark” – Joji

Passionate makeout sessions always lead to something more, and that does seem to be the case with this playing in the background. Joji has long abandoned his appalling internet persona for a sexy, seductive musician’s vibe— and we can’t thank him enough for making the switch. 

The slow nature of the track is what makes it one of the best sex songs, perfect for chasing each other’s lips with the lights off. 

 

9) “I See Red” – Everybody Loves An Outlaw

When ‘365 Days’ hit Netflix, it was all we could talk about for weeks. The raunchy tones the song sets is exactly what you’d want in the bedroom. We’d suggest keeping this one for some animalistic sex you freaks got going on.

It’s time to recreate the intense sex scenes from the film (even maybe renting a boat) with the song that will make you or your partner say, “Ass up, baby girl.” 

 

10)  “Sunsetz” by Cigarettes After Sex 

Named after one of the best activities to share together, Cigarettes After Sex just get it. A must have on any sex playlist, the band’s moody singles are perfect for stirring up emotions in the bedroom. Best enjoyed with a literal cigarette after sex as well! 

 

11) “Love Talk” – WayV 

Chinese pop group WayV threw it back old school with this steamy hit, even more so when they rolled out an English version.Let these sexy men get you in the mood as they implore you to, “touch me, tease me, feel me up”. 

If that doesn’t scream bedroom song… we’re not too sure what else does. 

 

12)  “Cry Baby”  – Megan Thee Stallion ft. Dababy

When it comes to getting sexy in the bedroom, Megan is someone girls can take note from. 

She shamelessly gives direction to her partner in the song, “Uh-uh, don’t fuck me like that, fuck me like this, yes” with slapping sounds to perfectly demonstrate her point. Don’t be shy to give your partner a little guidance if they need it, ladies!

 

13) “Redbone” – Childish Gambino

No one quite saw it coming when hip hop rapper Childish Gambino returned to the music scene with an R&B album, but aren’t we thankful for it… “Redbone”’s seductive intro immediately puts anyone who listens to it under a powerful spell that can only be broken by blowing one’s back out. 

 

14)  “Confident” – Justin Bieber ft. Chance The Rapper 

Isn’t it kinda weird to think about how Justin Bieber was once just a purple hoodie wearing, floppy bangs looking kid? Well, don’t let those thoughts distract you from what’s going on down in the bedroom. 

The years have rolled along and much like the Biebs, we too have grown. “Confident” is exactly what a sex song should have; lyrics that hit the spot and a seductive beat to do the dirty to.

 

 15) “Best Part” – Daniel Caesar ft. H.E.R. 

Sometimes sex isn’t just about the fucking, but rather the slow, passionate love making. Don’t be afraid to slow things down in the bedroom by swapping your usual hip hop choices for some acoustics. 

Let the crooning of both these talented vocalists ease you into the mood, as Best Part remains as one of the best love making songs even in 2021. 

 

16) “Gangsta” – Kehlani 

One of R&B’s leading ladies, Kehlani rules any sex playlist. We’ve chosen her hit Gangsta, which has blown up on Tiktok recently and led to the birth of many thirst traps. 

After all, what’s more seductive than crawling on top of your lover all decked out in lingerie while mouthing, “I’m fucked up”? 

 

17) “Sex Money Feelings Die” – Lykke Li

We couldn’t leave a classic out of this playlist. Lykki Li has been the queen of alternative music but no one could have predicted the success of ‘Sex Money Feelings Die’. Capturing the four most important things in existence, this banger of a seductive track is perfect for— well, banging. 

 

18)  “Montero (Call Me By Your Name)” – Lil Nas X

Being the top song for sex of 2021, Lil Nas X wasn’t being subtle when he included the very graphic image of him giving Satan a lap dance in the music video. Montero (Call Me By Your Name) has an addictive beat that will get your hips grinding before you know it. 

Seduce your lover into taking a bite of your apple bottom with this sinful treat. 

 

19) “WAP” – Cardi B ft. Megan Thee Stallion

No one was as quite poetic as Cardi B when she aptly described what it takes to make someone’s pull out game weak. 

The top sex song of 2020 that still lingers in our mind today (talk about having that gorilla grip on us!), WAP is perfect for adding a stripping routine to thanks to the viral Tiktok dance that was born from it. 

Make them work for it when they see that WAP bounce! 

 

20) “Dick” – StarBoi3 ft. Doja Cat

Speaking of Tiktok hits, we can’t leave out the latest trend that got us hooked. A new fun addition to your sex playlist, “Dick” is anything but subtle. Both Starboi3 and Doja play on words in this track, giving a whole new meaning to gymming! R.I.P to that (cat emoji) indeed. 

 

Well, we hope you put these top sex songs to use in your playlist when you’re getting down to do the dirty with your partners. For more salacious tips, don’t forget to tune into Sugarbook for the low down.