We’ve asked a group of 30 successful Sugar Babies from our platform to share the top 5 secrets for being a successful sugar baby.
1. Get to know your potential (POT) Sugar Daddy better
“I usually chat on Sugarbook for over a month before I initiate any meet-ups. This is to prepare myself with sufficient information to understand his likes and dislikes and hobbies. Then when we meet up, we’ll have a lot more things to talk about,” said Belinda, who is currently conversing with a few sugar daddies.
Sugar dating is fun and exciting and you can hone your negotiation skills by learning how to communicate right from the beginning. It is tempting to come off mysterious but being upfront and honest, gets things done.
2. You don’t have to keep it a secret
“All my friends know I have a sugar daddy. He comes out with us for drinks and dinner and pays all the time. We think he’s a great guy and he gets to enjoy the company of young, beautiful girls,” quipped Sally, who has been in a sugar relationship with her sugar daddy for over 8 months now.
Letting your friends know about what your preferences are when it comes to dating is a positive thing. They’ll have your back and you are able to live your life and flaunt your luxuries freely. There might be a little jealousy, but that may stem from their own insecurities. However, do draw the line with oversharing personal details of your sugar relationship.
3. Be confident and presentable
“You want the part, you have to look the part. The luxurious lifestyle is available for everyone but you need to put some effort into looking like you belong there too,” advised Naomi, a stylist and fitness instructor who has been sugaring for a year.
It doesn’t matter what body type you have. The key to being a successful sugar baby is confidence. Looking great and showing off your best assets are also useful in attracting the attention of your POT and you’ll be able to impress him more when you highlight your best attributes.
4. Be understanding and discreet
“Some sugar daddies are super successful and always in the limelight and may prefer some discretion about their personal lives. To secure and keep your sugar relationship, practicing a little privacy goes a long way,” mentioned Ramona, who is currently seeing a sugar daddy who is a venture capitalist and is constantly in the news.
A sugar relationship is based on mutual benefits, therefore if you are accepting of the Terms of Relationship as agreed between you and your sugar daddy, then honour your part.
5. Communicate, communicate, communicate
“The whole reason why my sugar relationships work out is that we are honest and transparent with what we want from each other. I evaluate my expenses to know how much it would be to sustain my lifestyle and put it on the table from the beginning. And he’ll let me know what he expects from me and if I agree to it, we’ll get together,” said Alexa, a veteran sugar baby with over 5 years of experience.
Updating your profile on Sugarbook with what you want and what you’re looking for is the first step in being direct. Exercising patience when it comes to meeting the right sugar daddy is important as well. It is great to be open with your demands but you also need to be accepting – remember, a sugar relationship is mutually beneficial.